Stories of support from Macmillan nurses
Support from Macmillan nurses during treatment
Marianne's story
During Covid, Marianne received support over the phone from Macmillan nurse Amy. Watch the video to see Marianne meeting Amy in person for the first time and hear more about how Amy supported Marianne.
"My nurse Kay kept me and my family close company when I was preparing for my radical cystectomy. But not long before my operation date, it was cancelled because they found a clot in my lung so the team wanted to treat me to thin my blood.
"Between Christmas and New Year, Kay worked hard with others in the team to arrange several tests to see if the treatment had worked while supporting us by phone throughout.
"Meanwhile the tumour was still growing. In every interdisciplinary meeting, Kay helped move my case forward and they operated successfully only 2 weeks after the original date.
"Then while I was in hospital, Kay continued to support me and gave me advice on managing life with a stoma. Even last year, she helped sort out a regular review that hadn't been scheduled.
"I cannot thank her enough for everything that she has done, and I am sure other patients would agree wholeheartedly."
- Latestart, an Online Community member
“I was on a few weeks holiday in February 2021 when I realised something wasn’t right. I got a pain down below which lasted an hour, I contacted 111 and they advised to get an appointment at the doctors.
“I was diagnosed with testicular cancer, and it came as a shock to my whole family. It hit us hard as we have never had to deal with something like this before.
“After an operation, I was transferred to another hospital to be managed. The transition from the two hospital seemed to take so long I felt like I had been forgotten about. I contacted my Macmillan nurse, and she took it on herself to become my link person. She rang me everyday with an update until 4 days later she managed to get me an appointment.”
- Daniel, diagnosed with testicular cancer
"Macmillan were incredible in the way they supported my dad and our family. Macmillan nurses came to the house to give him medication, they helped him with financial and legal advice, they arranged for an adjustable chair, a hospital bed and a stair lift to be brought to his house so he could be as comfortable as he struggled with energy and mobility.
"Macmillan gave my dad a sense of purpose in the darkest of times. He looked forward to their visits and they were so important to him. They were available on the end of the phone if he or the family needed any advice. They were a real ray of light in the worst time of our lives. Up until then I didn’t realise how much Macmillan did or how they just come to your home, and nothing is too much trouble."
- Jemma, whose dad was diagnosed with peritoneal cancer
Phil's story
Phil was diagnosed with breast cancer in 2016 and was supported by a Macmillan nurse.
"Being a male in a female dominated environment, I initially struggled to find my place. My Macmillan nurse Jenny offered great support when I needed it.
"She took me to my local Maggie's centre and suggested I contact Breast Cancer Now's Someone Like Me support helpline to be matched with another male diagnosed with breast cancer.
"Every meeting I had with my surgeon, Jenny was there and their approaches complimented each other. Obviously she was pleased when she was able to tell me that the surgery was a success, and my cancer hadn't spread so I wouldn't need chemotherapy."
Other ways Macmillan nurses have provided support
Mohammad's story
Mohammad was diagnosed with bowel cancer in 2021. Unfortunately he experienced different side effects from treatment, including being in hospital for a staph skin infection.
"I was kept in isolation and my wife couldn't see me because you had to go online and book in your visit, but there were no slots. During my stay, I didn't get to see her for over five days. The staff explained that it was one slot per patient, so she would just need to keep checking for when slots became available.
"I remember sobbing and explaining to my Macmillan nurses that I hadn't seen my wife, there's been no contact and I'd asked to speak to somebody because I was going out of my mind. They said they weren't having this.
"They went straight to the booking desk and said they need to get someone in to talk to me. They put me in touch with the chaplaincy services, so an Imam and Father Michael would come to visit during my hospital visit.
"They also made an agreement so that my wife would just call to say what time she'd be in, without the need to go through the booking system. The Macmillan nurses smashed those barriers!"
What is a Macmillan nurse?
Macmillan nurses are specialist cancer nurses who can help you to understand your cancer diagnosis and treatment options, and support you though your cancer experience.
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