How Priyanka is helping children understand cancer – and breaking taboos in South Asian communities

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Published: 01 May 2025
Mother of two, Priyanka, 39, used her experience of triple negative breast cancer, to write a book to help children understand a parent’s cancer diagnosis and challenge cancer taboos within her community.

Living with triple negative breast cancer – and the need for better support for children and families

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Priyanka was diagnosed with triple negative breast cancer at 36. After discovering a lump in Easter 2022, she underwent a mastectomy, chemotherapy, radiotherapy, and reconstruction, receiving the all-clear in October 2023.  

Cancer impacts more than people’s health. It can impact their relationships, jobs, finances, emotional wellbeing and so much more. While Priyanka and her husband felt supported during her cancer treatment, she felt there was a lack of support for children, highlighting the need for better information and resources for young families facing a cancer diagnosis. 

Priyanka is sharing her story as part of our Whoever You Are campaign. 

 

"I thought, ‘how much do you tell them, or don't tell them?’ Children should know they are not alone.”

Helping children understand a parent’s cancer – how Priyanka is supporting families through storytelling

While going through chemotherapy for her triple negative breast cancer, Priyanka began writing a children’s book, ‘When Mummy Had Cancer’, to help other families talk about a parent’s cancer diagnosis.  
Told from a child’s perspective, it aims to comfort and guide children through their parent’s cancer diagnosis. Since her own breast cancer diagnosis, Priyanka has trained as a children’s life coach, determined to give families the tools and confidence to have honest, supportive conversations about cancer. 

"I'd rather speak to my children and tell them everything that I know, which has come from a professional, from someone with a medical background, rather than them Googling or going to a smart speaker." 

We have more information about talking to children and teenagers about cancer.

An Asian woman is sitting at a kitchen table looking out of the window. There are notebooks, pens and a plate of food on the table .

How Macmillan Nurses supported Priyanka – and why she’s breaking cancer taboos in South Asian communities 


Priyanka had a difficult start to her diagnosis, having a poor experience with her initial consultant. However, the support she received from Macmillan Nurses made a huge difference, helping her and her family understand what her cancer diagnosis meant.  

She’s since spoken out about the silence around cancer in South Asian culture, where it is often treated as a taboo. As a result, she didn’t feel supported by her community at a time when she needed it most, and said: “the community needs to come away from that.”