Dying Matters Awareness Week

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Published: 07 May 2026

Dying Matters Awareness Week encourages people to come together to talk about death, dying and grief. In this blog, Adrienne discusses the importance of these conversations and the ways Macmillan is improving support and information around end of life care for people living with cancer.

Adrienne Betteley Strategic Adviser for Cancer Care at Macmillan

Talking about death and dying

Dying Matters Awareness Week falls on Monday 4 to 10 May 2026 - it is an important campaign spearheaded by Hospice UK and has a different theme each year.

Over the last 3 decades, I’ve seen first-hand how talking about death can be life changing and, in some cases, liberating for all involved. Figuring out what really matters to people when they’re facing the end of their lives, can help them and their loved ones to prepare emotionally, practically and financially so they can get on with living life as fully as they can. And I’ve also seen how difficult it can be to even broach a discussion about dying - we need to change this.

If my experience of end of life care has taught me anything, it’s that there is such a thing as dying “well”. Of course, the way we die varies depending on the cause of death, as well as the individual needs of the person, but there is still variation in the care and choice that people have as they approach their end.

The first step in achieving a “good” death is talking about it more. I’ve contributed to many reports and articles over the years where we have looked at the taboos around discussing death, and how planning ahead can help people to die in a place of their choice and to have more control over their treatment.

So what are we doing at Macmillan to change things?

Working in partnership with healthcare systems across the UK and Social Finance to improve outcomes for people as they approach the end of their life. 

Our partnership with non-profit organisation, Social Finance, led to the development of a Macmillan End of Life Care Fund

Through this fund, Macmillan provided up-front funding for services and ongoing subject matter expertise to partners across the UK. The investment is repayable by local health systems if mutually agreed outcomes are met.

These investments support new or enhanced services that aim to:

  • Improve patient choice: Help people get care in the place of their choosing, often at home.
  • Reduce unplanned hospital admissions: Shift care from hospitals to the community.
  • Enhance coordination: Ensure seamless support across different healthcare providers and charities.
  • Drive sustainable change: Support the development of models that local health systems can sustain long-term.

For more information about our work, contact systeminvestments@macmillan.org.uk.

We're widening our support to Macmillan professionals.

This includes our palliative and end of life care professionals.

Discover more about our palliative and end of life care resources and support

We have information for your patients about end of life. This is available in different formats and languages. 

Of course we all die. But all too often it feels like we are hiding from talking about and preparing for death, as best we can. The fact that death will affect every one of us should galvanise us into action. Talking about death and dying in those exact terms and not using euphemisms, such as “passed away” or “lost a loved one”, is one of the first steps we can all take to make the conversation a more commonplace and less confusing one. 

Checklist to get you talking about death and dying

 

Here’s a helpful checklist to help you start the conversation and make your plans: 

  • I have written down my wishes for end of life and treatment
  • I've started the conversation with loved ones about the plans for my death
  • I've created a list of my must-have experiences before I die
  • I know whether I would like to be buried or cremated
  • I know where I would like my funeral to be or if I want a funeral
  • I know how I would like my life to be celebrated 
  • I have made a list of all my important documents and contacts (bank and building society, solicitor, insurance policies, accountant, etc)
  • I have created a Lasting Power of Attorney if I want to
  • I have written down advice and letters for loved ones
  • I have life insurance set-up
  • I have made a Will
  • I have considered what legacy I want to leave behind 
  • I have left a gift in my will to a charity or cause close to my heart 
  • I’ve written a letter of wishes, distributing my personal belongings to my loved ones to go alongside my Will.
  • I’ve made arrangements for the care of my pets 
  • I’ve registered my wishes for organ and tissue donation.

 

Resources for your patients