If you look after someone with cancer, it’s natural to feel lots of strong emotions. Talking about how you’re feeling can help.
'I didn’t really consider myself as his carer.'
'I probably only realised I was a carer about halfway into Renate’s treatment.'
'I am his carer, but I'm his wife as well.'
'It takes a special kind of person to do what the Macmillan crowd do.'
Other carers have helped us write our booklets to help you. Order them for free to read when you can.
Visit The Source to search for tips to help you support someone with cancer. You can also share your own tips to help others in the same situation.
If you're supporting someone with cancer we have free courses, online learning and resources to help you with what you're facing.
Meet other carers near you. Find out about support groups, where to get information and how to get involved with Macmillan where you are.
Gabby, from Macmillan, cared for both her father and brother at a young age. Read about how caring has affected her life choices and her advice to anyone who finds themselves in a similar position.
Looking after a loved one with cancer? This is a safe and supportive place to share your worries and emotions without worrying about upsetting members living with cancer. Please remember when posting that this group is for Carers only.
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