Paul on being a carer
'I probably only realised I was a carer about halfway into Renate’s treatment.'
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Being a young carer can cause lots of different emotions.
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It can feel strange when you stop being a young carer.
'I probably only realised I was a carer about halfway into Renate’s treatment.'
'It was a tough blow to deal with. Very tough.'
'We talk about absolutely everything now. Nothing’s off the table anymore.'
'I didn’t really consider myself as his carer.'
Grace, 23, shares her experience of caring for her boyfriend after he was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer.
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