Being diagnosed with cancer and then having treatment can understandably have a huge impact on someone. It can also affect their family, friends and colleagues.
Going for tests and waiting for the results can be an anxious time. Many employees may wish to keep their situation confidential at this point. If they tell you what is happening, you can ask them if they need time off for medical appointments.
When someone is diagnosed with cancer, the shock can make them feel numb at first. Some people can take a while to accept that they have cancer and they may try to carry on as if nothing is wrong. They may feel a mixture of emotions, including:
- anger or bitterness
- sadness
- fear – of the disease, treatment and dying
- loneliness and isolation.
Your employee may need some time off if they, or a family member or friend, are diagnosed with cancer. They may want to be with people close to them and try to recover from the shock before coming back to work.
Learning that cancer has come back can also be devastating news. This can be particularly difficult if the person needs more treatment, or if there are fewer treatment options than before.
Uncertainty can be one of the hardest things to deal with when faced with a cancer diagnosis and can cause a mixture of emotions. Some people manage this by taking one day at a time and not looking too far into the future. Others want to find out as much as possible to help them get back some sense of control.
If your employee becomes upset
Cancer can cause many different emotions. Sometimes people find their moods can change suddenly and at unexpected moments. If this happens to your employee at work, it might help to offer them a private space for a while. You could suggest they go home for the rest of the day. Ask if they would like you to contact a family member or friend to travel home with them.
Your own emotions
You and your colleagues may also have strong feelings and this is only natural. You can ask for support to help you cope with your own emotions. It may help to talk to another manager in your workplace. Remember to think about confidentiality and how much the person may want others to know.
You can also call our cancer support specialists on the Macmillan Support Line on 0808 808 00 00. We are here to help anyone who is affected by cancer, including you.